the 30 skills every woman should master..do i agree on this??

http://style.uk.msn.com/wellbeing/mindbodysoul/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=9342853

Sisters have been doing it for themselves, apparently, since approximately 1985. But what should a woman of the noughties be able to do for herself? Well, the following list of 30 things, for a start. From the emotional (putting yourself first) to the practical (putting up shelving first), this list of skills really will see you standing on your own two feet. And ringing on your own bell. Just like Annie and Aretha said.
Every woman should be able to…

1.leaving the house without make up

i've done this..n i agree on this..and am not that fugly but not beautifool oso..

so i am brave enough to leave my house without any make up..

but felisa cosmetics really take care of my skin by only using sunblock + foundation aje

2.walking in hi heel

erm...i can but i cant!...hehe

i can walk in hi heels but not in the quitetest way.so i can walk with that but not to control my style of walking with it... so i end up making noise from my tak tak tak heels..

3.walking in flat shuz

majority of my routine use shuzs are flat..so im the master of this..

4.drive

i was one of the carefull + polite driver on the road..

but i dunno how thru is this??

nadyana only agree on the part take care of others ppl car..but i dunno the drivings part...

5.put flat-pack furniture together..DIY thingy

im good at this!! seriously i dont need a man on this...

6.say no!

erm..its hard actually...but not on my family my friends

on certain part..erm..i dunno...im quite confuse on this part...

7.go out alone

i've been going out alone like since kids hehehe but not when am at IPOh..

everywhere have to bring my father!!

i was fated to have a long distance relationship now n forever...so,

kinda hard to get friends to agree on the same direction..so what i can do is to go out alone...eventhough at dubai!!

8.master her own finances

i failed on this...before..but i dunno about this year ahead...

9.keep a blog...

what say u??

10.know how a computer works

i knoe only like 60%..or maybe 40%..im too lazy to learn everything that is not supposed to be master at...then ill be like super women hehehe...

11.ask a man out

is it on a date or on lepak?

if lepak..sume aku ajak...kecoxh rusaimi abg joe najih aris..zyre sharok..farid..bla2..ramai je..kalo date??erm..aidil?nope..not him...abg joe?erm ..maybe...

12.put yourself forward

erm..Men are so darn good at this. Leading an event? A man will do it! Presenting something? A man will do it! Making a speech? A man… oh, you get the idea. It’s time to wrestle the microphone back, ladies. And I don’t mean that just on karaoke nights.

owh..ok..if this so..event..im one of the organizer..kak aisah calls me an event manager heheh...leading it la kind of..but not on making a speech@ emcee...once i push odahs front on najihs farewell party hehehe

13.learn some basic car mechanic

heheh..once kt adilkap driving school oyeah!!

14.pitch a tent

as a former cadet police i do have this skill..

and im loving it!!

15.walk away from a bad relationship

ive done this twice...

16.give her opinion

in this term her is older women...im not good on this this but ill try!!

17.do diy

aha..ive wrongly describe the upper statement...i love doing diy..its satisfying...

18.cultivate male friendship

Let’s face it: women are fab, but sometimes we need a little testosterone in our lives. Make sure you have some male friends - because a male friend is a man who knows and loves you for who you are, who can keep you grounded, and who can offer you that all-important male insight into relationships. Except for his own, naturally.

i agree on this..thats y i love to hang out with the male friends,sometimes..but my bf dah jeles la skang aiyok..

19.be single.?

shud i master it?and how??

20.know what her karaoke song is

i know..mine is abba dacing queen..but not the one that im good at hahah

21.asserts her needs

nggak paham dong...

22.age gracefully

im doing it..learning to do it...havent graduate yet..heheh

23.make one impressive dinner party

yes..a lot..

24.know what suits her

i only know 45% kot..

25.forget about her own stuff for a while

i cant i wont!!

26.use gadgets

i love gadgets but not the kind of so call ''gadget freak'

27.pack lightly

only man can do this without their scarfs that need to be match with the blouse,

they only need boxers insteead of lingerie plus bra plus2..shuz n hand bag oso..argh!!!

28.do nothing

ill gain weight la...

29.love herself the way she is..

im learning!!

30.put herself first

i cant do this and ill always ended up being lied and such...

appy bday adammm

my lil big bro turns 21 yesterday!!

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akeduas yaga egoskd;ask taprei orga lain yangaejf kerne Oreaerj nyer,...

sorry

Hard to Say I'm Sorry
Everybody needs a little time awayI've heard her say from each otherEven lovers need a holiday, oohFar away from each otherHold me now, it's hard for me to sayI'm sorry, I just want you to stayAnd after all that you've been throughI will make it up to you, I promise you, babyAnd after all that's been said and doneYou're just the part of me, I can't let goOoh, bup bup, bup bupCouldn't stand to be kept awayJust for a day, from your bodyWouldn't want to be swept awayFar away from the one that I loveHold me now, it's hard for me to sayI'm sorry, I just want you to knowHold me now, I really want to tell youI'm sorry, I could never let you goAnd after all that we've been throughI will make it up to you, I promise youAnd after all that's been said and doneYou're just a part of me, I can't let go, I can't let go

Sorry, Blame it on me
As life goes on I'm starting to learn more and more about responsibility And I realize that everything I do is affecting the people around me So I want to take this time out to apologize for things that I've done And things that have not occurred yet And things they don't want to take responsibility for I'm sorry for the times that I left you home I was on the road and you were alone I'm sorry for the times that I had to go I'm sorry for the fact that I did not know That you were sitting home just wishing we Could go back to when it was just you and me I'm sorry for the times I would neglect I'm sorry for the times I disrespect I'm sorry for the wrong things that I've done I'm sorry I'm not always there for my sons I'm sorry for the fact that I'm not aware That you can't sleep at night when I am not there Because I'm in the streets like everyday I'm sorry for the things that I did not say Like how you are the best thing in my world And how I'm so proud to call you my girl [Bridge] I understand that there's some problem And I'm not too blind to know All the pain you kept inside you Even though you might not show If I can't apologize for being wrong Then it's just a shame on me I'll be the reason for your pain and you could put the blame on me [Chorus] [ Find more Lyrics on www.mp3lyrics.org/ai ]You could put the blame on me [x4] Said you could put the blame on me [x3] You could put the blame on me I'm sorry for the things that he put you through And all the times you didn't know what to do I'm sorry that you had to go and sell those bags Just trying to stay busy till you heard from Dad And you would rather be home with all your kids As one big family with love and bliss And even though Pops treated us like kings He got a second wife and you didn't agree He got up and left you there all alone I'm sorry that you had to do it on your own I'm sorry that I went and added to your grief I'm sorry that your son was once a thief I'm sorry that I grew up way too fast I wish I would've listened and not be so bad I'm sorry that your life turned out this way I'm sorry that the FEDS came and took me away [Bridge] [Chorus] I'm sorry that it took so long to see They were dead wrong trying to put it on me I'm sorry that it took so long to speak But I was on tour with Gwen Stefani I'm sorry for the hand that she was dealt For the embarrassment that she felt Just a little young girl trying to have fun Her daddy should never let her out that young I'm sorry for Club Zen getting shut down I hope they manage better next time around How was I to know she was underage In a 21 and older club they say Why doesn't anybody wanna take blame Verizon backed out disgracing my name I'm just a singer trying to entertain Because I love my fans I'll take that blame Even though the blame's on you [x3] I'll take that blame from you And you could put that blame on me [x2] You could put that blame on me [x2] And you could put that blame on me [x2]


sorry!!

E-box

i took dis link from cibo..
kinda lazy to update my blog
actually too much of activity
that i dont have words to descirbe it

anyway..thanks to cibo ida adam n Iem hubby cibotaks..

sorry bo..i took ur link here...

lalala karoke from cibo

:: kepuasan hati ::

suke gembire ceria tp suke tdo

hoping for the best

hoping for the best
as i wanna leave the old memories behind

hoping for the best
as theres to much to bear before

hoping for the best
i know what i deserve with this sacrifice


Allah..
give me strength to remain in this life

aesya being kidnapped

missing our lil angel
AESYA

here are a few of image captured
after we kidnapped her from mantin n to bring her to puncak alam

a very independent child
and uncle n aunty loves u so much..
wink wink...behave yee

anyone?? suggestion for ubat tenage

E=mckuasadua..

asyik nk tdo je..

pemalas!!!

interview pon malas nk g..

apelah..

ade rezki tu...pergila...

inshaallah..next week..!!

:: sorry ajoe ::

last 30th i had dis sulky thingy for ajoe

a few problem arisen

here n there bla n bli n blue

eventho I went to al ain wif other friends
i still feel something was wrong n am in the stressful situation

so i decided to take leave n to finish up my leave yet to cover friends
(we have a schedule to cover up friends la)
so we have to take turns

and i decided not to tell ajoe that im coming home
(psst nearly everyone i told bout this suprise n everyone says that its cute!! i dunno y )
huhuhuhuhuhuuhuhuh

sorry ajoe..sorry again n again..
i saw ur face just now
i cant forgive myself for doing this to you
but the most lovely part is when i realize that u really trust me for being me!!!
thanks...

thanks for being the bestest my other half in the making heheh

love love

lagu untukmu

have u guys heard the news?

its pathetic yet sucks

i dont give a damn bout it anyway

Lyrics / Lirik Lagu Untukmu by Meet Uncle HusseinMeet Uncle Hussain -

Lagu Untukmu

Tiada bintangDapat menerangkan hati yang telah dicelahBagaiku lumpuh tak mampu berdiriAku tetap beginiTakkan berubah kerna aku tetap akuDan lalu rindumu bukanlah aku*Bahagia kau dan fikiranmuBerbezaKau dan juga akuDua hati yang tak mungkin bersatuApakah akuHanya boneka yang sering engkau mainkanYang dikawal oleh jari-jarimuKu punya hati dan perasaan pernahkah engkau fikirkanCukup cukup oh cukuplah(ulang *)Tak faham tak fahamTak dapat ku fahamMelayan sikapmu perawanBerbeza-berbezaKau dan aku berbezaKita memang tak serupaBebaskan bebaskanKunci dilepaskanKita tidak sehaluanCukuplah sudahlahSampai di sini sajaHubungan kita berduaHoa…hoa….hoa…..

:: jet leg ::

jet leg...

nk muntah..

burp...

ayat2 cinta version emirates

ayat2 cinta

was a really ilmiah movie..not to say ilmiah..
maybe i used the wrong word to describe it
but for me very ilmiah yet mengasyikkan...
what am i supposed to use la...

ok2 but that is for me..
i dunno bout others...
its my page so the hell wif others~...blablabla..

writing bout my view for this ayat2 cinta movie...

1st of february 2009
one of my colleague was put behind bars
he was accused for being suspicious yet involved with our rompakan tragedy
and the worst thing is that the rompakan happened on his
WEDDING DAY
24th/26th January 2009

follow my story here
am not going to use the same name
coz it might hurt some people out there..

ferdi
(of course not the real name)
married to
aisha
(of course not the real name oso)
on the date as stated above
aisha is 30 years old and ferdi is just like 24 or 23 y.o.
but ferdi is not like other man
like to toyin or flirting around he is one of the responsible type
a very close to one of the boss (cam anak angkat laa kirenye)...
but ferdi in ayat2 cinta tu alim kan?
n i dunno how religious is he but the aisha is kinda angel kalo among the friends..

heard from the gossipers(odaodiodu)
that ferdi was oredi being terminated before he went back for wedding leave
what on earth is the kind of a bos that terminates staff on the day that the bridegroom to be apply for the leave?
but that was just a gossip cause if terminated..most of us shud get a letter
then he went back for wedding day..
the wife is oso in the same company..
after dat they came back..

on the day there here..
ferdi rooms was being audited(the chinese man in the same lounge area told me)
not only ferdis other oso...
but not by the policemen...
but by the GARDENER???what on earth??
mashaalah..but they are the encik tidak adils (house owner) workers..
em...there must be something wrong somewhere here..suspicious tuls!!

( ihope that this story is for real coz i heard this from his wife)

then on 1st feb 2009 ferdi went to cee the deo
(acronim has to change to avoid any misunderstandings)
to ask for the termination letter
instead the deo asked for his passport ???
ferdi just ignore his request n the deo ask him to meet wif
encik tidak adil

encik tidak adil accused him for being suspicious
plus to involved in the robbery after encik tidak adils
requests him to give his car
n house keys..hello!!!apesal mintak brg org gile hape??

then ferdi refused to give what he requested for n encik tidak adil immediately called the shurtah(police in arabic)
he then was put behind bars

after a nite in the prison
the next morning when his wife aisah tried to call him
(they are in the separate room due to some condition)

she was told that ferdi was in the lock up....
pt...she cried hysterically n luckily most of her close friends have transport to bring her to the police station+headquarters for explaination from the deo+abu dhabi for embassy thingy..
and from msia his dad oredi wrote a letter to the consulate general here..

after rushing for here n there to seek help
most of the other staff were praying for the safety of ferdi n his wife

i have to continue dis thing in part 2....
i need to take a break...
chow~

natural calls is calling hahaha
ring ring ring...

please all pray for ferdi!!

the more stories...the more lazier...the more fattier

aah

my weight increasing

theres no happiness

but still

am taking my food normally

still...

ah..

more stories to tell...

more stories to share and gossip hehehe

tapi jadik pemalas siot!!!!!!!

erms....

ill write the news bout bakar+bout majlis doa selamt+bout our al ain trip...bout my egypt trip(ehem)+bout joehanna masuk paper(damn she was cute )...heheheh jeles tuh!!!

r o m p a k a n itu

rompakan tu

cause our house being surrounded by militans
(not really militans but these workers are wearing their kurta plus their scarf around the face..n smells like bawang hehehe..)

this morning aida said that they tried to open our back door..
erms..kire mcm CSI la konon...
yeah~crime scene investigation konon...

i hope they dont find the things that theyre looking for inside here...
it will cause so much trouble then....
then they will try to find the theft@burglar~
n later...LCL will be in the deep shit to bring this issue to the shurtah(police)